Sunday, 21 April 2013



3. Go, Go, Go! 


Thinking always ahead, thinking always of trying to do more, brings a state of mind in which nothing seems impossible.”  Henry Ford

Now, I know of this lady who has loved in spite of the odds. The only thing she has known all her life is to give; give love, time, affection and what not. Yet, she has been rejected many a times by the very same people who she had loved, shattering her heart to smithereens. Wow! And I thought I was the only one. Not likely. There are so many ‘good’ people in the world who are doing their bit to just give. And give without any conditions, even after the very people they had loved have moved on. My friend here has been reprimanded n number of times by her associates, “Look, we don’t want you to be hurt. You have been a giver all your life and one fine day you will have nothing left inside you. So, we wish you’d be more careful.” All this has not deterred her and she has stood her ground with, “I have been born to give. No matter what happens, I will continue throughout life to love my people.” Most likely, there will be people who will hurt her again, but all this will never deflect her from that one goal, one motive, one wish she has in her heart and mind; to give love.

Although love and giving has nothing to do with what I am about to say, yet there is one pointer that I would like to take from this lady’s attitude. Her goal! She has her eyes set on what she wants and she has not swayed from that one thing she wants to do desperately and passionately; to give love. And she has done this all her life uptill now.
Robin Sharma has been one teacher I have followed like a shadow over several years now and I have loved each and every book he has written. After reading MegaLiving!, I felt nothing is impossible. We use only 25%of our brain in activities which either brings us small amounts of success or no success at all. The other unexplored 75%, if utilized to its fullest extent will definitely take us to new heights.
I love what Robin Sharma says about MegaLiving! 7 Step Formula to Achieve Your Goals:
1.       Know what you want
2.       Set precise goals with a deadline & develop a strategy
3.       Let your goals dominate your thoughts
4.       Use pressure to your benefit
5.       Enlist support
6.       Remember the rule of 21
7.       Have fun and reward yourself
And for all this, you have to give yourself time. Invest in yourself by waking up early morning and planning your day, setting goals, both short term and long term. If you want something desperately, then the only thing you can possibly do is set goals for yourselves and take steps, even if they happen to be baby steps. Just see the difference and ofcourse, don’t forget to love. That’s the only thing the world needs and that too loads of it at this very moment.

Tuesday, 16 April 2013

2. Keep the Faith


As we talked across a few air kilometres away, he sounded distressed but not defeated, or so I thought. As he narrated and I listened in rapt attention about his fight with life, there was not a grain of doubt that here was a man who has painstakingly gathered bits and pieces of his life together in the hope that it will regain its past normalcy and glory. But he seemed lost and confused. “But trust me. I had been caught in the cross-fire. I was just not aware of the shortcomings of trusting people.” And thus he went on to tell me in details of what had happened when he first started his career as a young ambitious engineer. And I listened without a word of interruption. “You know, I feel everyone is moving away from me. They don’t love me anymore. I am lost without their faith in me.” I didn’t retort.
After a point of time, when my friend across the distance thought he had said enough and wanted me to speak, I took a pause. I picked up the one word from his monologue; faith.
Faith, I told him, is the biggest asset anyone can possess. Faith in the omnipotent and faith in yourself is what can change the entire dimension of your life. It can give a 3600 twist to your life and in the process create magic.
A couple of years back, I had randomly picked up The Secret from a book-shop at the airport and read it slowly till I was satiated by its contents. I hope to read it again sometime. But the biggest mantra that I learnt after reading the book was to keep the faith. Faith in oneself. Faith that everything will be according to what I think and plan. Faith that I will be the happiest person by my deeds and actions.
The mind is the most powerful system in the whole human body. It can think and make things happen. I read about this person in The Secret who met with the most horrendous mid-air accident as he was flying in his air-plane. He was paralysed from neck down and done up all in plasters. The only thing he could move were his eye-balls while he was bound to survive on a life-support system, which the doctor said was definitely not going to ever get him on his feet again. Of course, the other thing in his whole body he could exercise was his brain. And he put it to an enormously good use. He just thought. He thought of only the things that he would do after he got back on his feet. His brain sent powerful signals to the rest of the body to improve and recover. When he was able to communicate to a certain extent, the doctor came to understand that the man has this great desire to walk out of the recuperating centre come Christmas, which was exactly in another six months time. The doctor only shook his head and decided to give the man the moral support in spite of debilitating thoughts deep within. However, as Christmas approached, the man was only too excited as it was time for him to go home. And that is exactly what he did. Even though he limped out of the facility, the doctor and nurses were exuberant and amused to see a strong-willed man walk out into the sunshine with all the faith in his heart on Christmas Day.
Faith, belief in oneself and positive thinking can make a man go to places that he had only hoped for and dreamt about. So, for example, if you wish to see yourself in a famous and powerful position, just think and make it happen. Ofcourse, you also have to plan towards this goal. If you just day-dream and don’t take actions on your plans, then your dream will remain as it is; on a vision board inside your head. Work towards them. And to keep in mind that the biggest asset that you have, which you can use as and when you wish to is faith. Faith in yourself!
“So, is it possible to just think and make things happen? Will my family love and trust me again?” he asked me,  maybe slightly composed and calm after telling me his story and hearing what I had to say about the belief and faith in oneself. But he was also expecting me to give the answers, which I really don't have. The answers are always within oneself. However, I signed off with a smile by saying, “Yes, it is possible. And your family is going to love you back sooner than you think. The only thing you got to do is keep believing in yourself that everything's going to be fine and also stay focussed. And you better think good positive thoughts. If perchance the Universe hears you wanting something nasty and negative, be it for yourself or for others, it will actually give it you. So, just be careful what you think.” And don’t forget to read The Secret and listen to the lyrics of the song by Michael Jackson, "Keep the Faith."




If You Call Out Loud
Will It Get Inside
Through The Heart Of Your Surrender
To Your Alibis
And You Can Say The Words
Like You Understand
But The Power's In Believing
So Give Yourself
A Chance

'Cause You Can
Climb The Highest Mountain
Swim The Deepest Sea, Hee
All You Need Is The Will To Wart It
And Uhh, Little Self-Esteem

So Keep The Faith
Don't Let Nobody Turn You 'Round
You Gotta Know When It's Good To Go
To Get Your Dreams
Up Off The Ground Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out
Believe In Yourself
No Matter What It's Gon' Take
You Can Be A Winner
But You Got To Keep The Faith
...Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got It

And When You Think Of Trust
Does It Lead You Home
To A Place That You Only Dream Of
When You're All Alone
And You Can Go By Feel
'Stead Of Circumstance
But The Power's In Beliving
So Give Yourself A Chance

I Know That You Can
Sail Across The Water
Float Across The Sky, High
Any Road That You Take
Will Get You There
If You Only Try

So Keep The Faith, Ow
Don't Let Nobody Take You Down, Brother
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Your Feet Flat On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


I Told My Brother How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got It

I Know That Keepin' The Faith
Means Never Givin' Up On Love
But The Power That Love Has
To Make It Right
Makes It
Makes It Right

Keep The Faith
Don't Let Nobody Turn You 'Round Brother
You Got To Know When It's Good To Go
To Get Your Dreams Up Off The Ground
Keep The Faith Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


Better Stand Up And Act Like You Wanna Do Right
Don't Play The Fool For The Rest Of Your Life
Work On It Brother
And You'll Make It Someday
Go For What You Want
And Don't Forget The Faith

Look At Yourself
And What You Doin' Right Now
Stand Back A Minute
Just To Check Yourself Out
Straighten Out Your Life
And How You're Livin' Each Day
Get Yourself Together
'Cause You Got To Keep The Faith
Uh, Uh, Uh

So Keep The Faith, Ow
Don't Let Nobody Take You Down, Brother
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Your Feet Flat On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


Lift Up Your Mind
Before Your Mind Gets Blown
Some Things In Life
You Best Just Leave Them Alone
Go For What You Want
Don't Let It Get In Your Way
You Can Make It Happen
But Ya Got Ta Keep The Faith

Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got To Keep The Faith
Yeah Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Sister
You Got To Keep The Faith
Now, Now

I'll Show My Brotha
How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head
And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
If You Keep The Faith
Straighten Out Yourself
And Get Your Mind On Track
Dust Off Your Butt
And Get Your Self-Respect Back
You've Known Me Long Enough
To Know That I Don't Play
Take It Like You Want It
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon'

Don't Let Nobody Take You Down
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Get Your Feet Back On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out
But Till That Day
I Said You've Got To Keep The Faith! And When You Think Of Trust
Does It Lead You Home
To A Place That You Only Dream Of
When You're All Alone
And You Can Go By Feel
'Stead Of Circumstance
But The Power's In Beliving
So Give Yourself A Chance

I Know That You Can
Sail Across The Water
Float Across The Sky, High
Any Road That You Take
Will Get You There
If You Only Try

So Keep The Faith, Ow
Don't Let Nobody Take You Down, Brother
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Your Feet Flat On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


I Told My Brother How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got It

I Know That Keepin' The Faith
Means Never Givin' Up On Love
But The Power That Love Has
To Make It Right
Makes It
Makes It Right

Keep The Faith
Don't Let Nobody Turn You 'Round Brother
You Got To Know When It's Good To Go
To Get Your Dreams Up Off The Ground
Keep The Faith Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


Better Stand Up And Act Like You Wanna Do Right
Don't Play The Fool For The Rest Of Your Life
Work On It Brother
And You'll Make It Someday
Go For What You Want
And Don't Forget The Faith

Look At Yourself
And What You Doin' Right Now
Stand Back A Minute
Just To Check Yourself Out
Straighten Out Your Life
And How You're Livin' Each Day
Get Yourself Together
'Cause You Got To Keep The Faith
Uh, Uh, Uh

So Keep The Faith, Ow
Don't Let Nobody Take You Down, Brother
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Your Feet Flat On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


Lift Up Your Mind
Before Your Mind Gets Blown
Some Things In Life
You Best Just Leave Them Alone
Go For What You Want
Don't Let It Get In Your Way
You Can Make It Happen
But Ya Got Ta Keep The Faith

Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got To Keep The Faith
Yeah Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Sister
You Got To Keep The Faith
Now, Now

I'll Show My Brotha
How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head
And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
If You Keep The Faith
Straighten Out Yourself
And Get Your Mind On Track
Dust Off Your Butt
And Get Your Self-Respect Back
You've Known Me Long Enough
To Know That I Don't Play
Take It Like You Want It
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon'

Don't Let Nobody Take You Down
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Get Your Feet Back On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out
But Till That Day
I Said You've Got To Keep The Faith! I Know That You Can
Sail Across The Water
Float Across The Sky, High
Any Road That You Take
Will Get You There
If You Only Try

So Keep The Faith, Ow
Don't Let Nobody Take You Down, Brother
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Your Feet Flat On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


I Told My Brother How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Brother
( From: http://www.elyrics.net )

You Got It

I Know That Keepin' The Faith
Means Never Givin' Up On Love
But The Power That Love Has
To Make It Right
Makes It
Makes It Right

Keep The Faith
Don't Let Nobody Turn You 'Round Brother
You Got To Know When It's Good To Go
To Get Your Dreams Up Off The Ground
Keep The Faith Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


Better Stand Up And Act Like You Wanna Do Right
Don't Play The Fool For The Rest Of Your Life
Work On It Brother
And You'll Make It Someday
Go For What You Want
And Don't Forget The Faith

Look At Yourself
And What You Doin' Right Now
Stand Back A Minute
Just To Check Yourself Out
Straighten Out Your Life
And How You're Livin' Each Day
Get Yourself Together
'Cause You Got To Keep The Faith
Uh, Uh, Uh

So Keep The Faith, Ow
Don't Let Nobody Take You Down, Brother
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Your Feet Flat On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


Lift Up Your Mind
Before Your Mind Gets Blown
Some Things In Life
You Best Just Leave Them Alone
Go For What You Want
Don't Let It Get In Your Way
You Can Make It Happen
But Ya Got Ta Keep The Faith

Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got To Keep The Faith
Yeah Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Sister
You Got To Keep The Faith
Now, Now

I'll Show My Brotha
How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head
And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
If You Keep The Faith
Straighten Out Yourself
And Get Your Mind On Track
Dust Off Your Butt
And Get Your Self-Respect Back
You've Known Me Long Enough
To Know That I Don't Play
Take It Like You Want It
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon'

Don't Let Nobody Take You Down
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Get Your Feet Back On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out
But Till That Day
I Said You've Got To Keep The Faith! I Told My Brother How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got It

I Know That Keepin' The Faith
Means Never Givin' Up On Love
But The Power That Love Has
To Make It Right
Makes It
Makes It Right

Keep The Faith
Don't Let Nobody Turn You 'Round Brother
You Got To Know When It's Good To Go
To Get Your Dreams Up Off The Ground
Keep The Faith Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


Better Stand Up And Act Like You Wanna Do Right
Don't Play The Fool For The Rest Of Your Life
Work On It Brother
And You'll Make It Someday
Go For What You Want
And Don't Forget The Faith

Look At Yourself
And What You Doin' Right Now
Stand Back A Minute
Just To Check Yourself Out
Straighten Out Your Life
And How You're Livin' Each Day
Get Yourself Together
'Cause You Got To Keep The Faith
Uh, Uh, Uh

So Keep The Faith, Ow
Don't Let Nobody Take You Down, Brother
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Your Feet Flat On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


Lift Up Your Mind
Before Your Mind Gets Blown
Some Things In Life
You Best Just Leave Them Alone
Go For What You Want
Don't Let It Get In Your Way
You Can Make It Happen
But Ya Got Ta Keep The Faith

Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got To Keep The Faith
Yeah Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Sister
You Got To Keep The Faith
Now, Now

I'll Show My Brotha
How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head
And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
If You Keep The Faith
Straighten Out Yourself
And Get Your Mind On Track
Dust Off Your Butt
And Get Your Self-Respect Back
You've Known Me Long Enough
To Know That I Don't Play
Take It Like You Want It
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon'

Don't Let Nobody Take You Down
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Get Your Feet Back On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out
But Till That Day
I Said You've Got To Keep The Faith! Better Stand Up And Act Like You Wanna Do Right
Don't Play The Fool For The Rest Of Your Life
Work On It Brother
And You'll Make It Someday
Go For What You Want
And Don't Forget The Faith

Look At Yourself
And What You Doin' Right Now
Stand Back A Minute
Just To Check Yourself Out
Straighten Out Your Life
And How You're Livin' Each Day
Get Yourself Together
'Cause You Got To Keep The Faith
Uh, Uh, Uh

So Keep The Faith, Ow
Don't Let Nobody Take You Down, Brother
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Your Feet Flat On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out


Lift Up Your Mind
Before Your Mind Gets Blown
Some Things In Life
You Best Just Leave Them Alone
Go For What You Want
Don't Let It Get In Your Way
You Can Make It Happen
But Ya Got Ta Keep The Faith

Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got To Keep The Faith
Yeah Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Sister
You Got To Keep The Faith
Now, Now

I'll Show My Brotha
How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head
And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
If You Keep The Faith
Straighten Out Yourself
And Get Your Mind On Track
Dust Off Your Butt
And Get Your Self-Respect Back
You've Known Me Long Enough
To Know That I Don't Play
Take It Like You Want It
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon'

Don't Let Nobody Take You Down
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Get Your Feet Back On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out
But Till That Day
I Said You've Got To Keep The Faith! Lift Up Your Mind
Before Your Mind Gets Blown
Some Things In Life
You Best Just Leave Them Alone
Go For What You Want
Don't Let It Get In Your Way
You Can Make It Happen
But Ya Got Ta Keep The Faith

Gon' Keep It Brother
You Got To Keep The Faith
Yeah Keep The Faith
Gon' Keep It Sister
You Got To Keep The Faith
Now, Now

I'll Show My Brotha
How To Do The Thing Right
Lift Up Your Head
And Show The World You Got Pride
Go For What You Want
Don't Let 'Em Get In Your Way
You Can Be A Winner
If You Keep The Faith
Straighten Out Yourself
And Get Your Mind On Track
Dust Off Your Butt
And Get Your Self-Respect Back
You've Known Me Long Enough
To Know That I Don't Play
Take It Like You Want It
But You Got To Keep The Faith
Gon'

Don't Let Nobody Take You Down
Just Keep Your Eyes On The Prize
And Get Your Feet Back On The Ground
Keep The Faith, Baby, Yea
Because It's Just A Matter Of Time
Before Your Confidence Will Win Out
But Till That Day
I Said You've Got To Keep The Faith!

Monday, 1 April 2013

1.Spirit against E=mc2


“The spirit world has no industry and no money changing hands, so there are no thoughts of greed or competition. The spirit body doesn’t require food, so thoughts about eating aren't created. The spirit body remains in perfect health, so there’s no need to think about diet or exercise. The materialist may think this sounds rather dull, as he can’t conceive of life without the pursuit of physical pleasure. Yet the spirit world is alive with thoughts of love directed towards the quest for knowledge. We are served by keeping our thoughts ones of beauty. We can be harmed by holding thoughts aimed at fulfilling physical pleasure.”
An excerpt from the book, “Life after Death” by Mary T. Browne has compelled me to contemplate on a subject which I have heard being discussed time and again but have refused to accept it as the truth. The Koran says that the spiritual life that will be bestowed on us after death is the ultimate truth. Both my grandmothers and my mother had almost hammered this thought into the deep recesses of my brain. It had stayed there undisturbed; till I read this book and memories were re-stirred.
Mary T. Browne explicitly chronicles her brush with departed spirits of the other world, who tells her if they are either happy or sad in the astral life. But most of the time, they tell her that they are either happy or worried about the people alive on Earth. It’s hard for anyone to believe that after we die and crumble to dust, how is it possible for the soul, which is said to stay alive even after the physical form is no longer there, can even think and connect with its life in the world? Does it have a mind? Can it think? Can it remember anything from its life on Earth? How is it possible for a spirit to exist after a human body changes into a different form of energy? Questions which are so very difficult to understand and answer.
But if I were to take explanations from science, then it says that E=mc2; meaning that all mass is equal to energy. So, if mass in its disintegration is converted to energy, then where and how does the soul exist? And that too, a miracle ‘visitation’ from the ‘other side’ to its family and friends through Mary, who claims that she can feel the presence of these spirits when their family meets her for a counselling session. Too far-fetched a story, don’t you think? Physics says that mass converts to different forms of energy depending on how it disintegrates. The fundamental energy particles discovered so far are quartz, gluon, neutrino and their counter particles.
So who are we to believe now? Metaphysics or physics? Mary T. Browne, who speaks almost like the Holy books or Albert Einstein who meticulously put together the greatest scientific formula of E=mc2?
On a softer plane, another excerpt from Mary’s book says, “We are not free if we are obsessed by anything, be it a substance or a person or a desire for material gain. All these imbalances are created by our thinking. Imagine that! We can change our lives by changing the way we think.” I do agree with her on this! “.....we would be well served if we started our positive thinking patterns right now. There’s nothing gained by delaying.” This I feel is one of the best parts of the book. What more can we people want than happiness? And if it comes from positive thinking, then nothing like it. But that doesn’t in any way mean that we are to alienate our mind from negative thoughts. Sometimes, these thoughts give us more energy than we can think of.
However, the best part of the book “Life after Death” was the chapter, “Prescription for Grief”.  One of Mary’s clients, Diana was diagnosed with inoperable cancer and the doctors gave her only 6 months to live. She took the news with great dignity and decided to spend what time she had left, enjoying herself. Diana was a workaholic who’d always found it difficult to take a vacation. Only on hearing the news of her impending death did she start to enjoy her life, travelling to Europe with her sister and doing other things she’d never given herself the time to do: In retrospect she would’ve lived her life differently. “I did nothing but work, putting in hours at the office and working at home at night. I might have been quite a bore: Work was all I talked about. Because of this, my life has passed by in a whirl. I never took time to have fun or to contemplate my spiritual beliefs. Now I deeply regret it. Please tell people that money and success are fine, but there’s more to life. Don’t wait until you’re dying to start living.”
I think the last line itself is self-explanatory. We all want to live and live life to the fullest. So why not start now, this very second instead of postponing it for a future date. I am sure Einstein too had his hiatus from formulating E=mc2 and came back feeling fresh and ready to start where he stopped! We neither need Physics or Metaphysics to teach us this really easy formula of happiness and fulfilment!